The Sex Life of an Ordinary Girl

Foreplay can be a great starter to an amazing sex session, but it can also be agonisingly boring. Even though I love a good fiddle and get excruciatingly aroused by my boyfriend’s never-ending generosity in the foreplay department, there are times when I just think ‘For God’s sake, just stop it and shag me’.

I think foreplay can make or break a relationship. If your partner can’t turn you on with a gentle touch then is the chemistry right?

Out of the sexual partners that I have had, I can honestly say that very few of them actually touched me sexually the way I really wanted or, even got me close to climax. Being the polite young lady that I am, I always let them believe otherwise.

Looking back maybe I shouldn’t have. How would they learn if no one ever says ‘What are you doing? I’m not a radio that needs tuning’ or ‘It’s not a lucky dip down there you know’, or even ‘You know that isn’t the spot - right?’

There are some men that clearly have no idea where to find the clitoris, some that have an idea what might turn a girl on, but haven’t had enough practice and some that just don’t care whether the girl has a good time, just as long as they get their nuts wet. The latter are not worth the effort, sexually or emotionally.

There are those, such as my hottie boyfriend, who really do know whether to hit the spot and put some real effort into getting me turned on. But sometimes a girl just wants a good hard shag. It doesn’t always need to be romantic, it doesn’t need to last most of the evening - it just needs to be good, honest sex!!